You now have a plan (your strategic calendar) of how you would like to use your time. Refer to it frequently, and occasionally show both the normal and strategic calendars by clicking all the calendars so you can see how your appointments match your plan.

When the time changes in your strategic calendar, change the filter at the top of ToDoList to show tasks with the appropriate category, such as (Work). When your family time comes around, change to the (Family) list.